Humans are not meant to be monogomus beings

No matter how far we get into someones world we get, there is always something we never understand.

Love produces laughter, smiles and tears at the same time,

If twos a company, than threes a crowd....a wife, girlfriend or lover at all costs,

caught up in games played and lies told, while waiting for love to unfold.

A woman who has modified the truth to fit her own needs, it boils down to lust and infatuation but a queen can only have one castle.

I've been a participant to sex without love, torn by emotions, confused by decisions made from the start,

Erica Baydu asks "how can we make love when you don't love me?" so we remain apart.

Can we truly be homie-lova-friends, can a slave serve two masters?

Can a woman love two hearts, without feelings being torn apart?

Like the Bermuda triangle I get lost, my true feelings tossed .....................in the love triangle.

T. Davis  (c)2006

With high divorce rates and the fact most relationships in general are polygamists (multiple partners) or have infidelity I wonder if humans are not meant to be monogamist?
According to many psychologists we were forced into monogamy by society and the "church".  It's interesting as I become older, as a divorced woman how my idea of the "perfect man" or mate should look.  I have had sex without love, practiced celibacy, had friends with benefits and a open relationship.  Each one fit the lifestyle I was living at the time, being a hopeless romantic I wonder if I will ever be married again or expect a monogamous relationship?
With the rate of HIV and sexually transmitted disease one has to be careful in engaging in any type of sexual relationship, knowing your partner (s) and having good communication is the key to any relationship.  At the end of the day everyone needs to find what works for them and be involved with someone it also works for.  Honestly, would you ruin your relationship or marriage and everything you've worked for because your partner was unfaithful?  Is there a difference between emotional cheating and just sex?  Is it wrong for someone to have occasional sex outside their relationship if that is all it truly is?
Please post your thoughts, comments, and opinions for discussion.


Peace, Love and Strength.
T. Davis

Islam research

http://insider.pk/life-style/religion/common-misconceptions-about-islam/

Discoverying God's Plan for our lives

Happy New Year 2012!!  Some of you may have new years resolutions, or goals you'd like to complete this year or in general want to know what a new year can bring.  Well, in discovering God's plan for our lives some believe in destiny or a pre determined path, or others who believe in God or a Higher power just live through faith.  Well the Bible says "faith without works is dead" (James 2:17) it's fine to believe God is in control, but we need to also be in control of our lives whether it's personal or professional improvements, or goals.  
Sometimes we are blessed with a vision or inspiration to do something, and we take off running like it's a race!  The key to success in anyting is the three Ps- patience, planning and prayer.  Don't get discouraged or impatient, otherwise you will create struggles. Believe He is arranging circumstances, people and opportunities.  Some suggestions I have is work on time management and goal planning.  Organize and make "to do" lists, set goals and then work towards them daily, weekly monthly and yearly.  Seek a mentor or talk to someone who has accomplished what you want, prepare yourself spiritually, mentally and educationally to begin the process.
Finally, follow your instincts, have confidence in yourself and decision making, believe God is behind the scenes working on His plan for you!


Peace, Love and Strength


T. Davis